Self-Awareness
When I think about self-awareness, our ethical code is one of the first things that comes to mind. We are to be aware of our own set of beliefs and culture, while not imposing those values and interests onto the client. Asking for and implementing feedback from supervisors and trusted colleagues is another way I can work to demonstrate authenticity. I also want my clients to know I'm sincere in trying to understand them, which could be demonstrated by me asking them to tell me more about something that is important to them, that I am not super familiar with. I pride myself in being open minded and seeking to know more to better help my clients, which can take the form of asking them questions and doing my own research. It's crucial the clients' goals align with their viewpoints and beliefs. A question I might ask regarding achieving a goal could be as simple as, "what would this look like for you?" This is essential because what it looks like to me and what it looks like to the client may be two entirely different things. Always considering the client and reflecting on my motives and actions in dealing with clients will help me grow and provide the best therapy I can.
Professionalism to me is not only showing up for the client, being punctual, and maintaining boundaries, but furthering my education to adhere to client needs. It is also demonstrating a sincere interest by the way I actively listen, my posture, body language and meeting the client where they are. I adhere to the counseling code of ethics and consult my supervisors and colleagues when faced with any dilemmas.
